• Biggest turn offs chart

The top 50 worst turn offs revealed

As professional matchmakers, we know that every dater secretly has a wishlist as they embark on a new dating journey. Perhaps they’re hoping for a partner with beautiful blue eyes. Maybe they want someone who shares a particular hobby or passion. Or it could be they just want that instant, indefiniable connection with that special person, the very second their first clap eyes on them.

On the less romantic and idealistic end of the scale, there’s that list of major turnoffs—the things that are guaranteed to send a dater running for the hills at the first natural break in conversation.

We know that for many of our clients, cigarette smoking is a big one. And they’re not alone—a recent poll suggests that smelling of nicotine is one of the biggest turnoffs.

While there’s someone rather obvious inclusions in the list—bad body odour, lying, talking about exes, marriage and babies, and being selfish are naturally at the top of the chart of things unlikely to inspire a second date—there are some surprises too.

Natural skin tone is infinitely preferable it seems, as a bad fake tan makes an appearance in at number 18 on the list of 50 biggest turnoffs. Taking selfies is also best left until further down the relationship line—someone snapping themselves on their iPhone is the 21st biggest black mark.

Still living with parents, having rubbish taste in music and being rude to the waiters—they’re all best avoided if you’re looking for lasting love.


  1. Body odour
  2. Bad temper
  3. Lying
  4. Being selfish
  5. Bad breath (cigarettes)
  6. Bad breath (unidentified food)
  7. No sense of humour
  8. Yellow teeth
  9. Eats disgustingly
  10. Having dirty clothes


Author: Rebecca

Rebecca lives in London with her husband, daughter and dachshund. She hopes her dating blogs for Flame Introductions will inspire you to seek out the best London and UK locations for brilliant dates, and discover some tips along the way to help you find your perfect partner.